Relationship with our Special Person
Relationship with our Special Person – A reflection
Let’s honour the relationship with our Special Person /Romantic relationships.
Today I invite you to appreciate your special person. Remember the day you met them, what you saw in their eyes, your first impression of them (Is it funny? Were you intimidated? What did you do then?) I invite you to remember your time together and all the stages and cycles of your relationship.
We never fall in love when we find light in somebody’s eyes. We fall in love with somebody’s eyes when the darkness in them also reminds us of the darkness in our eyes. We fall in love with how other people light up and colour our world and how we can do the same for them.
Later, when the honeymoon phase wanes, we forget that we never expected our special person to be perfect or always bright. The first thing we saw was how they were not perfect. Their humanity connected us with our humanity in a unique way. They reminded us that we are not perfect either. And so, we set the course to become the best possible version of ourselves. Like we said days before, our darkness gives way to our light. They are one. The day you decided to work on your light to honour, respect, and match your person’s light was most likely, the day when you fell in love.
Seeing somebody shine so beautifully inspires us; that inspiration and commitment can move mountains in our life. Love inspired us, moved us, and changed us. That is why love is action. Love is committed activity to you and them. Over time, as couples merge their worlds, their love and sources of inspiration externalize to other types of relationships.
Today, think about how grateful you are for your special person. How lucky you are to have found them. How much they bring to your life and find ways to reciprocate that. This valentine’s day, think of ways to re-fill your cup together and apart. Remind them what you felt, saw, and thought at the begging, and ask them to do the same. With honesty, think of how you can be better, nourish yourselves, and be happier.
Be a team. Don’t take yourselves for granted. Make the journey fun and honest. Finally, remind your partner that you love their scars as much as you love their light.
Cheers, to love!
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February 9, 2023